Problems of the Insecure Leader


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  • #42318

    sylvia hammond
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    The following comments were sent to me by Henk Kleizen, Business Mentor & Coach, HKAssociates and the article is copied with his permission.
    Colleagues
    In my day to day work with growing companies and dynamic leaders, in a wide array of industries and sectors, I am constantly finding new and different perspectives on Leadership in Action.

    Numerous people have asked that I share these perspectives ,so I will take the liberty to update you on these thoughts on a regular basis.

    Whilst it is really enjoyable to see good leaders in action, there are many times when I see leadership “out of action”. In trying to understand leadership, it is useful to understand why we sometimes “cannot unleash our leadership potential”. We all harbor some insecurity; even if it’s just trying to hide the fact that we do. But it is not something we can ignore. Too much insecurity can cripple our leadership and anyone we lead.

    In Building your leadership Resume, John Hunt outlines nine characteristics of an insecure leader:

    • An insecure leader has a hard time giving credit to others.
    “Why should praise seem like an unrecoverable cost? It is a gift that gives back to everyone.”

    • An insecure leader keeps information from his staff.
    “When you release information, you convey trust and confidence to others. When you conceal it, you convey just the opposite: no trust, no confidence.”

    • An insecure leader doesn’t want his staff exposed to other leaders
    —people who may possess qualities you don’t, people who may have skills your staff wishes you had. “When one person grows the whole team grows….Give your people the best—even better than you are.”

    • An insecure leader is often a micromanager.
    “He’s a control freak.” Nothing can happen that they are not fully aware of. They fear things will fall apart without them. This kind of oppressive control can wring the life out of your team.

    • Insecure leaders are too needy of praise.
    “For this reason, more than perhaps any other, they can’t really be leaders. When someone needs his followers to always be telling him how wonderful he is, he works in direct opposition to the heartbeat of leadership, which is: building into other’s lives.”

    • Insecure leaders don’t provide security for those they lead.
    “If the mood and environment in the office is one of fear, second-guessing, and self-doubt, you can be sure an insecure leader is in charge.”

    • Insecure leaders take more than they give.
    Instead of validating and encouraging others, they are focused on receiving it.

    • Insecure leaders limit their best leaders.
    “Insecure leaders cannot genuinely celebrate the victories won by others.”

    • Insecure leaders limit their organization.
    “Not only does insecurity throttle down the horsepower of individual team members; it results in putting restraints on the whole church or organization.”

    The challenge we face is to Deal with our insecurities…………..

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  • #42320

    Skills Universe
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    I agree, often leaders derail not due to their strenghts – but due to their “dark side”. Almost like the Dart Vader character in Starwars

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    Skills Universe
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    I agree, often leaders derail not due to their strenghts – but due to their “dark side”. Almost like the Dart Vader character in Starwars

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    Skills Universe
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    I agree, often leaders derail not due to their strenghts – but due to their “dark side”. Almost like the Dart Vader character in Starwars

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  • #42319

    sylvia hammond
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    Now that’s an interesting comparison.

    Letitia van der Merwe said:

    I agree, often leaders derail not due to their strenghts – but due to their “dark side”. Almost like the Dart Vader character in Starwars
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