If you are yourself and you add some of the following ingredients, then you certainly are on the right path!
a) Give attention to the amount of guidance and direction that you can give and influence others.
b) You aresure to have inner socio-emotional ingredients in order to support others in providing leadership.
c) The level of readiness of those who follow you without hesitation in performing the task or objectives is what makes you the real leader.
Your leadership is focused on your leadership and your self that you offer others without any need of reward. No leader can lead without true followers